Okay, friends… this is one of those “pinch me” moments.
I opened up the June 2025 Society Life Magazine—you know, the one with all the top doctors and medical experts—and there it was: a full-page spotlight on The Widow Chose Red? my Christian grief memoir about love, loss, and leaning into faith after the heartbreak of ALS.
Seeing my story featured in a magazine that celebrates healing, resilience, and hope? Talk about full circle.
The article gives a beautiful summary of my book, which chronicles my journey with my late husband John as we faced his ALS diagnosis, raised two young boys, and held tight to God through every heart-wrenching moment. It’s not just about ALS. This story is filled with spiritual strength, emotional healing, and choosing to live again after deep loss.
One line they highlighted sums up the heart of this journey:
“She stood at his service wearing red. Not in defiance, not in denial—but in love.”
That sentence still gives me chills. Because yes, I wore red to John’s memorial service, not to rebel, but to reclaim joy. It was a bold step toward healing, and the first spark of a new beginning.
If you’re walking through grief or caring for someone with a terminal illness, The Widow Chose Red? offers a message of hope. It’s an ALS memoir, a Christian book about grief, and a reminder that beauty can bloom in the darkest seasons.
The Society Life article also dives into the “Reflections” chapters of the book, which guide readers through journaling, prayer, and real-life decisions about end-of-life care and letting go. If that sounds heavy, I promise—there’s also light, love, and even laughter in these pages.
So grab your favorite mug (mine’s filled with coffee), read the article, and if you haven’t already, pick up the book. Whether you’re walking through sorrow or simply want to be reminded of God’s goodness, The Widow Chose Red? is here to sit beside you.
With love and red lipstick,
Rachel